Lolo Knows

I can't tell you how much joy and satisfaction I get from loving others, but it's only because I love myself. I have questioned that love many times only because I felt as though there were times that I would self sacrifice and give my all to others, but only to feel left depleted after when things didn't always work out the way they were suppose to. I think we all have felt this way whether with a friend, relative or most commonly, a significant other.  Here are some things I practice in loving myself that I find that work especially after going through disappointments. Give it a shot and do it daily and watch it change your whole outlook and perspective in life. #LOLOKNOWS 1.  Begin your day  with love (not technology).  Remind yourself of your worthiness before getting out of bed. Breathe in love and breathe out love. Enfold yourself in light. Saturate your being in love. 2. Take time to meditate and journal.  Spend time focusing inward daily. Begi...

Each day is a meditative process for me to advance myself into enlightenment. I didn't  just wake up one day and say, "oh, I want people to hear what I have to say based on what I know." I live to know what I know and that's why I am sharing with you. I am conscience of who I am and how I would like the world to perceive me and live exactly the way I want my character to live on after I have checked out of this human existence. I have developed trust in the wisdom that created me and that is exactly why I smile and get out of bed each and every morning knowing my grand purpose is being sought after and it's developing and becoming as I am writing this blog. I live each day thankful that I woke up and to see my kids and speak to the people that mean the world to me and believe that if I were to leave too soon, there would be a huge hole in their life and I would be dearly missed. Your life has meaning and a purpose and no matter who hurt you or what complica...

I can't say how true this actually is. The old saying is,  "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Ladies, it's all good to give this man the best you can give but don't go out of your way to be a wife when he hasn't even given you a ring or set a date for the wedding. Wives have different duties than girlfriends. Stay in your lane!  When he is ready to move forward in your relationship, then by all means do the laundry, cook those meals, clean his house, take care of his appointments, run those errands, be his bookkeeper... You get my drift? In the meantime, your role should just simply be  enjoying your date nights, talking about your careers and building your friendship period. I know there are different strokes for different folks, but too many times I have seen women getting hurt because they put their best foot forward with no pay out in the end. Just love and be patient with yourself and trust God that he will place the right ...