I can't say how true this actually is. The old saying is, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Ladies, it's all good to give this man the best you can give but don't go out of your way to be a wife when he hasn't even given you a ring or set a date for the wedding. Wives have different duties than girlfriends. Stay in your lane! When he is ready to move forward in your relationship, then by all means do the laundry, cook those meals, clean his house, take care of his appointments, run those errands, be his bookkeeper... You get my drift? In the meantime, your role should just simply be enjoying your date nights, talking about your careers and building your friendship period. I know there are different strokes for different folks, but too many times I have seen women getting hurt because they put their best foot forward with no pay out in the end. Just love and be patient with yourself and trust God that he will place the right ...