The Darker Side of Love

Read this article and it was spot on for what I just went through in my previous relationship. It sucks knowing that you can love someone for a lifetime but not be with that person for reasons this article points out, but one day the hurt will surpass and the scars will heal fully once a good amount of time has passed. That is exactly what I am doing. It's good to take that necessary time to just heal and unpack that baggage for good. Loving yourself is the best medicine you can give.

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