Lolo Knows

A big part of our adult work is rechoosing how we want to be. Most of us didn't have a perfect childhood. However, if we are still caught in a web of negative behaviors and patterns from childhood, we can free ourselves. When we notice ourselves acting in ways we dislike, we can stop and consciencly choose how we would like to act or respond in that instance. We are not chained to the past; we have the power right now to rechoosing how we want to be. 

Everybody has a Judas in their lives and sometimes several. Some are friends, but most are unfortunately in your own damn family. I can relate to Jesus. It's hurtful as shit. The reason this occurs is lack of real understanding and so many being so far in their own asses to ever even want to try to understand who you are and why you feel and think the way you do. It's fucked up, but that's what it is, but you know what you do have control over, how you respond or don't respond to the bullshit. You don't have to answer to things especially if they are coming at you as an attack because that's all you will get at the end of the day, your  feeling like you were nailed at the cross. So, don't say shit!!! Keep it moving. Sometimes saying nothing is everything. 

I thought about this little girl today and how much she makes me happy and how much I want to continue to love her forever. This is me and her spirit is all I care about loving. As long I love her, I can love everyone else around me. I keep this picture on my dresser to look at everyday as a reminder. It's very therapeutic and it couldn't hurt trying to see yourself like this too. Most of us wouldn't hurt our own children, so why you ever hurt yourself knowing that little baby still lives inside you? Love and light to you all. 

Anything holding you back from love, being kind, healthy and just making your ass plain weak is the devil and that's anything you created in your mind to accept that shit you said you deserved in the first place. Love is the only true thing that is real. The only thing separating ourselves from attaining to its highest vibrational force is all the bullshit we keep conforming to and selling our souls for. You are the Devil and you are God. Make a choice to which side you stand for. They both live in you. Everything you do, say and believe is creating everything right in front of your eyes. If you don't like something, change that shit now. It all starts and ends with you!! My experience, the search for understanding is now manifested into my own reality and purpose from here on out. Why do I say these things because I care deeply and the heart I also created is too damn big for just me and my family and friends. I want the whole world to feel it pumping all the love I am creatin

Beginning right now in this moment begin living your life in such a way that you will never go to your death bed and say this , “I wish I spent more time with my friends and family, enjoying life, worrying less, and smiling more.” Nobody ever says “I wish I had more things and money and spent more time working and worrying.” So, now that you know the true secret to happiness and fulfillment, begin living that truth now.  

You Can’t Please Everyone It’s impossible to live up to everyone’s expectations. There will always be people — no matter what we say or how we treat them — that will judge us. Whether you’re at the gym, at work, taking the train, or even online playing Call of Duty. Even now it‘s happening.  You will never be able to stop people from judging you, but you can stop it from affecting you.  Think about the worst thing that could possibly happen when someone is judging you or what you’re doing. I guarantee that chances are —  nothing will happen. Absolutely nothing. No one is going to go out of their busy lives to confront us, or even react for that matter. Because as I mentioned before,  no one actually cares. What will happen, is that these people will actually respect you for claiming your ground. They may disagree with you, but they’ll respect you. Start standing up for what you believe in — causes, opinions,  anything . You’re going to have people that disagree with you anyways, so why